A little sneak peek into what I have been working on in the Panty Vigilantes book. This is the section aimed at women in the lives of men who wear lingerie, women who may have been quite surprised to discover that the men in their lives love to wear women’s clothing.

This section is dedicated to women who have found themselves unexpectedly in a relationship with a man who wears women’s clothing. That is to say, you knew you were in a relationship, you weren’t so well aware that the fellow you love is also the fellow who has been sneaking your panties. (Make him stop that, by the way and get him some of his own. Unless you like it, in which case, hey, go to town!)

Discovering that one’s partner wears women’s clothing can be a shock, especially if it isn’t something you’ve really thought about before. I know that many years ago, when my boyfriend of the time informed me that he liked to wear panties, it was something entirely new to me.

At this point, if you haven’t already, I’d advise you to read the other sections of the booklet as well as this one, they answer questions like ‘does this mean he is gay’ in detail. To cut a long story short however, the fact that a man has a soft spot for lingerie or other items of women’s clothing does not mean that he is less of a man, that he is less heterosexual, or that he will not make a good partner.

On the contrary, men who wear lingerie make some of the best partners because they appreciate sensitivity and subtlety.

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I’ve been skirting and tip toeing around this issue for months, if not years now.  To write a book for men who wear women’s clothing or not to write a book? I’ve now made the decision to do so, and you’ll be able to purchase ‘Panty Vigilantes | A Guide To Cross Dressing’  some time before Christmas. Probably. Perhaps by the New Year, it’s very early days as yet, but it is most definitely on its way.

Why am I writing it? What pushed me over the edge, so to speak? Well, it was the realization that so many cross dressing men are still languishing without a full understanding of what their cross dressing desires do and do not mean.  Why? Because  society at large does not understand the straight male cross dresser very well.

Oftentimes the only images we have of men in women’s clothing are drag queens or transgendered people.  This leads many people, cross dressers included, to  think and fear that if a man wears panties, the next thing you know he’ll be making you call him Delores whilst he dances the Can Can. Sometimes that’s the case, but most often its not.  If we can spread the word about the reality of the male cross dresser, I believe that we can make everyone’s life a great deal easier.

Part of the book will be aimed directly at women whose partners wear women’s clothing. It’s my hope that this book will provide a resource that men who wear women’s clothing can give to their partners and have them read. It won’t get you out of having to actually have that conversation with her, but it will smooth things along and answer some of her questions and queries.

I’ll keep you all updated on the status and progress of the project as I go along!