Another comment too good and lengthy to send into the void, but potentially too scandalous for the prudes in prudeville…

Orignally left on the hub, Men In Lingerie: The Secret Power Of Panties, Skirts, and Makeup

Kristian says:

I don’t think for most men who wear lingerie that the ‘look’ is all that important. Most men who wear lingerie do not go out dressed as women. He knows that he looks nothing like the beauty that even the average woman can look in pretty underwear. Her very female shape is enhanced by her lingerie. Very few men can be as well turned out as a woman as a well turned out woman can even in a skirt and jacket. She has ‘it’, that he doesn’t.

It is more to do with sensory effect. The ‘Feel’. I speak from my experience. I just love the soft, silky feel on my skin and the ‘tighter’ feel of panties. Stretch fabric enables comfort but still provides that tighter, more skin-close sensation. And retro ‘granny’ panties, the full cut nylon-type kind, have a wonderful feel on a gentleman’s manly parts.

I like the ‘look’ of the underwear itself. The lace, the sheen. I even wear a bra sometimes because of its sheer prettiness. My slips are beautiful garments as well as so comfortable. So much so that I wear a medium length slip under my ‘men’s day clothes’ most of the time. I like to know that I have a lacy edge around the hem. I like the feel of a tailored bust-line.

I like stockings. Not tights (pantihose). I like the feel of suspenders (garters) ‘tugging’. I can feel the difference of my trousers against tha small strip of thigh at the top of my stockings and the ‘slide’ of the trousers over the nylon of on my legs.

Not all chaps can ‘look’ girlish in their features, even with cosmetics. Some of us know full well we look silly pretending to be female. But the ‘Feel’ is what I like.

This comment was posted by Jon, to No Jack, You Can’t WearPanties, The Objectification of Men, unfortunately it was far too explicit for Hub Pages, so here it is in its full glory.

My little story about how this worked out for me.

I must admit that I have a fetish for women’s soft fuzzy angora and cashmere sweaters.

I was married for 16 years and hinted about this a few times by buying her a couple of sweaters. Guess what, she didn’t get it.

She was never a sensual woman and sexually I was never really happy with her. She told me it was the close I liked and not her! I give up!! Point is I’m glad it wasn’t the panties I told her about!

So came along the big D, and for a lot of other reasons beside this.

Anyway, after some time on my own and some sole searching, this year I met the most wonderful girl.

She is eastern European, tall beautiful, sensitive with an awesome personality.

We are both working professional, attractive and educated. We don’t work out, we sexercise and take walks.

She is the all time coolest babe in the world. We even go to the gentleman’s club together because she loves the sexy strippers.

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Responding to the Article ‘Is The Female The Highest Form Of Evolution?’

GoneNylon  says:

Apparently, Hope, your query is being pondered far beyond the digital edges of this hub. In the U.S., it is an article of faith among our bizarro right wing cultists that “America is being feminized.” Of course, these loonies see that as a BAD thing, and the generally equate it with homosexuality, liberalism and “Euro-centrism” (whatever, precisely, that might be).
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I have  been making a lot of noise lately about readers commenting and sharing here. Why is that? Well it is because the venue where I publish some of my articles does not tolerate any form of adult language. Unfortunately, many men don’t seem to understand this no matter how often I say it, and to be fair, many of them probably just don’t know that they’ve stumbled into a semi puritanical zone. I often end up having to moderate away comments which were quite excellent because they would break the TOS of Hub Pages. Unfortunately, readers seem insistent on commenting there, not here, and on writing essays in the comments there rather than here, so I implore you one last time.

If you have something to say that involves even slightly adult terms (‘sex’, ‘fetish,’ ‘transexual’, etc,) then write it here. Not there. It will more than likely be deleted into oblivion over there.

However, to preserve some of the comments in which a great deal of effort has been expended, I will occasionally publish them here, along with a link to the article they were published on for context’s sake.

On How Women Pick Their Panties

Julliette – Jullianne  says:

Exploring into the topic of ones delight for things feminine and crossdressing, while comfortably and securely grounded as a happy male, I find today, increasingly, a great sense of ease, confusion dissipated, comfort throughout with who I am and a heightened happiness with the feelings I feel. Feelings and emotions which are described definitively as being from what is ascribed to the feminine.

Here I have pieced together some descriptions of things dear and true, which I found surfing for scholarly articles to gain further understanding on what makes, me Julliette and you Jullianne, tick.

On expressing ones hidden personality characteristics, the author wrote: ‘crossdressing allows some men the opportunity to express portions of their personalities that this society does not accept in “masculine” men. While these characteristics, such as gentleness, passivity, and emotional sensitivity, are neither specifically feminine nor masculine, they are most commonly associated with women. Some men also report that they have the need to be flirtatious, to feel beautiful and glamorous, or to act passive and helpless. The transvestite feels most free to express these traits only when he is dressed as a woman.
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