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Are Men Who Wear Women’s Clothing Mute?

Men who wear women’s clothing have been marginalized for a long time. Why? Perhaps it is because for many men the behavior is based on purely fetishistic drives which demand privacy. Perhaps it is because for a long time, homosexual behavior was also marginalized and even criminalized and men feared being misidentified as gay. Perhaps it is because men with the drive to wear women’s clothing sometimes fear being ostracized by those they know and love.

There are many reasons to stay quiet, but they all cost men who wear women’s clothing deeply. Those who enjoy lingerie and panties as a fetish tend to be more open and vocal about it than those who simply enjoy women’s clothing and want to incorporate it into their everyday lives. This has left public perception of men who wear lingerie and women’s clothing as being that of a pack of oversexed perverts.

Even on this blog, even on this site where men are guaranteed to find acceptance and camaraderie, most of you stay silent. As evidenced when I enabled some comments features, no-one had anything to say at all, save for one lone little deviant (and I say that with affection,) who wanted the man in the bikini to show off his butt.

If you will not speak for yourselves, who will speak for you? If you will not speak for yourselves, how can you expect the status quo to change? You don’t need to go marching down the high street in your prettiest pink lingerie and high heels, but if the phenomenon of men’s fashion equality is to have any traction in the world at all, you will need to learn to speak up as a group, and not just on shady (or not so shady) panty fetish sites on the web but in your everyday lives.

Things change because people brave the uncomfortable days and years of being ‘different’, only to wake up one day and find that they are not different any more, they are simply one of the many. Some of you do a brilliant job of being who you are out in the world, some of you are not afraid to live your lives as you wish to live them, some of you are true inspirations to all. But for every man who proudly wears what he wants to, hundreds more quietly skulk about in hiding. Too few of you raise your voices. You are many, yet you hide in the cracks and crevices of cyberspace where nothing can and nothing will change.

If you want to see the day come where it is accepted as common knowledge that men can wear whatever they want, just as women currently can, then you need to quit hiding and speak up.

Comments! Comments For All!

I have added this newfangled comments system with alleged ‘Social Media.’

Click the ‘Admin’ button and you can log in with any account, Twitter, Google Friend Connect, Yahoo Account, Blogspot Account and so much more. I think you might be able to program your VCR with it as well. (VCR? Yes. VCR.)

Let’s see how this goes, shall we? If it gets spammed it will come down, none of us need the hassle of dealing with 50,000 links to male enhancement pills. It’ll only be on new posts and pages until I get around to adding it to others because I have to manually add it. So much for the new millenium.

The Pantied Man and the Bigot

First things first. I address this to men who wear women’s clothing and do so in public. When people call you a ‘freak’, or react negatively to the fact that you fall outside the accepted standard deviations from the social norm, realize that it is not you who they are angry at. It is themselves. Your ‘strangeness’ reflects their own insecurities and fears about not fitting in back at them. They react to those feelings, not to you. They don’t know you. You barely register as a human on their radar of self centered ignorance. They are lost and alone, blinded by blinkers of fear and they are threatened by your flamboyant display, the courage which you possess but they will never have.

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How To Make The World Accept Men Who Wear Women’s Clothing

pinky_and_the_brain_articleDo you wish that the world were more accepting of your little quirks? Are you a guy who wishes that he could step out in his panties and skirt and be greeted with smiles and nods of approval?

Though accepted norms can and do evolve over time, and in time, I think that greater acceptance for men who want to wear womens lingerie is actually fairly inevitable.

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What To Do If You Don’t Like Men Who Wear Women’s Clothing

Guy Wearing Stockings And PantiesI get a little rough on the bigots who oppose men who wear lingerie and other items of women’s clothing.

Not everyone likes the idea of men who wear women’s clothing and you know what? That’s okay. The world is made up of all types. On one end of the scale of wisdom and kick-assness we have the enlightened ones who understand on a deep and personal level that all life is an illusion, matter is merely condensed energy and we are one great consciousness experiencing, as Bill Hicks once said, itself subjectively.

You may get a chuckle out of it…

Cross Dresser, Spy, Messiah | One Man Who Wanted To Save The World

david shalyer deloresOne could say that David Shayler is hardly the best poster boy for the cross dressing community, but he is definitely one of the most high profile and perhaps influential. He also happens to be one of the few people who has spoken out against British intelligence agencies, though the price which he has paid for doing so appears to be a heavy one.

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Are Men Women When They Wear Lingerie?

doutzen-kroes-supermodel-obsession-06There’s a funny objection to the idea of men wearing lingerie, and that’s the objection to the idea that men are imagining themselves to be women. For some people, the very idea is against all that is natural and good in the world. It is unthinkable. It is… unimaginable.

But there is so much more to men wearing lingerie than meets the eye…

Ever Wanted To Change The World Whilst Wearing Panties?

This post has very little to do with panties directly, but a whole lot to do with changing the world for people who need it. Feel free to skip to the next lacy thing if that’s not your cup of chamomile.

If it could be, check out this article on Micro Lending using Kiva, basically you lend some guy or gal in a developing country $25 (along with a bunch of other people), for them to pursue a better life economically through enterprise. Then they pay you back and you can lend the money again or withdraw it for yourself.

For those interested, why not join the group I created on Kiva.org, Panty Vigilantes.  Panty Wearers changing the world, hell yeah!

EDIT:  It took less than an hour for the first member to join and make a loan, how much do you guys rock?! Hm? I’ll tell you how much. More than the moon! $75.00 has already been loaned to various small enterprises in developing countries.