This came in the form of a letter, but the writer was kind enough to let me share it with everyone. Hopefully this will inspire those of you perhaps feeling as if lingerie and relationships just can’t mix.
I’ve been reading your hubs for years now and your point of view helped me to further understand myself as a lingerie wearing man. I was married for a little over five years and it came to an end for various reasons, but one of them was that I was not honest with my ex about wearing lingerie. I look back on it now, some three years later and own my part in the breakdown of my marriage however, I am now with a wonderful woman who understands, accepts and encourages my lingerie wearing! We are both second timers and when we met and knew the relationship was going places, we promised to always be honest with each other about everything no matter what. NO secrets this time!
I was able to build up the courage and I explained myself to her and she was fascinated! She didn’t run away or freak out. She took the time to hear me out and understand who I was. It’s been an amazing ride so far! We shop for lingerie together and have a HUGE selection of bras, panties, stockings and the list goes on. Before I met her I mostly stuck with panties and a bra here and there but not often. Now she encourages me to wear bras and loves to see me in them. My sex life has never been better!
What’s even cooler is that she spent some time reading all she could about men like me, and found your sites (here and the Hubs) and it further expanded her understanding. If it wasn’t for people such as yourself, men like me would still be pretty apprehensive about exposing who we really are. I’ve never felt so free and comfortable in a relationship before. I don’t have to hide or keep my collection under lock and key anymore. All of our panties are where they should be; in a dresser. Same with our bras. Our outfits hang in the closet as they should and I have free choice to wear whatever I want, when I want, unless she chooses for me of course!
So, I just wanted to send this off to you to say THANK YOU and to let you know another one of your readers/fans made it to the promised panty land by finding an amazing, supportive woman who just lets me be me.
These loose panties are rather charming in their own unique way. With an almost skirt like appearance complete with lace inserts, you’ll be able to enjoy plenty of space in your lingerie. These are also available in ‘toast’ and ‘antique white’. Those who enjoy a classic lingerie aesthetic will find that these panties have a certain allure that cannot be long denied.
Only Hearts Venice Hipster W/Lace Insets
If you’re interested in trends in feminine lingerie, then you might be interested in the latest wildly popular piece of intimate apparel designed to create an ideal female form. It’s called Squeam, a brand umbrella-ing a bunch of shapewear
I chose the image of the pretty lady leaning nonchalantly against a tree in her bra, panties and shapewear because it is perhaps the most unintentionally hilarious thing I’ve seen in a while. It seems to imply that this underwear can become outerwear, as long as your make up is neat and you intend on accessorizing with a smile.
Made with rubber and cotton, the shapwear pictured is designed to cinch the waist, creating something approximate to a hourglass shape. Waist definition is a marker of good health and fitness, which is why we find it so appealing in our mates.
If you find this appealing, find out more at the link below…
Squeem Magical Lingerie Shapewear
Remember these panties? No, probably because these are naked glamor panties as you’ve never seen them before. With a new range of patterns, up to ten different styles, including a pale pink ‘fairy wings’ and a bolder ‘rock candy’, there’s a print and a color designed to fit your mood and panty personality. I love panties that are not only made to be comfortable and pretty, but which also allow for an expression of the inner self, something a little bit playful. Something a little unique. These panties fit the bill.
View the new range of naked glamour bikini panties…
‘Boudoir Blooms’ is a delightfully evocative phrase. These panties are also rather evocative, with a thick three inch lace band traversing the wearer’s midline, framing the little triangle of mesh below. I love the colors these panties come in. Pictured above are ‘Seashell’, a delicate pale blue pair, and Cosmopolitan, a spicier red and purple blend.
On Gossamer Boudoir Blooms Hip Tanga
It’s funny, isn’t it, that when you search for ‘elegant lingerie’ you find lingerie that is anything but. I think there’s a certain lesson to be learned there, I’d be more sure but I’ve been thoroughly distracted by crotchless skin tight shiny spandex undergarments. (Closer inspection has revealed that I featured these in black two years ago, but I figure a reminder wouldn’t hurt anybody.)
In the spirit of truly elegant lingerie made specifically for men, I’d like to suggest these panties, which are very non-elegantly named ‘the bong thong’. The bong thong comes in two colors, black and white and is made of a very nice lace that has been popular with male wearers of lingerie.
Men’s Sexy Stretch Lace Bong Thong
If a thong doesn’t say ‘elegance’ to you, perhaps because of the lack of coverage, allow me to suggest the ‘mini short’, a pair of panties with a vaguely suggestive name and lovely styling.
Check out Mini Short Panties For Men!
If you like interesting panties complete with charming patterns, but find such panties to be difficult to obtain in a size of your liking, you might want to check out these patterned panties, which come in everything from houndstooth to chocolate zebra and beyond. These panties also come with matching bras, so you can put together a very unique panty set. If wild animal colors don’t appeal, there are some very nice muted designs to choose from as well. This is definitely a range worth viewing.
Patterned panties for men, view the full range here!
Are you tired of getting you panties in a bunch? Finding that your lingerie is creeping into crevices you’d rather keep it out of? These high cut panties from Vanity Fair are designed to stay where you put them, whether that be in your dresser drawer, or on your derriere. They come in a relatively wide range of colors, by which I mean you can get the usual beige, white and black along with an interesting pink dotted number shown above and a ‘grey steel’, which puts me in mind of Zoolander’s Blue Steel. And a little of Le Tigre, but now we digresse.
Made of super soft microfiber, these are panties designed for your personal comfort and enjoyment. Yes, they’re high cut, no a Victoria’s Secret Angel probably wouldn’t strut them down the catwalk – mostly because it would be a breach of contract, but you can’t say that these panties aren’t incredibly well designed. And with a special ‘no ride up’ guarantee, you can wear these in confidence.
Vanity Fair Smooth Moves Hi Cut Panties
I can’t work out if these are pretty panties or ugly panties. I think they might be both, depending on context, mood and historical era. At any rate, these are a four pack of very uniquely styled panties including houndstooth panties, faded curtain lace panties, floral panties and even the famed ‘dowager’s mattress’ panties. These will appeal to anyone with a retro aesthetic, but not to anyone who is frightened by ornate wallpaper.
4 Pack: Secret Lace Variety Boy-short Panties
A well fitting pair of panties is like a gentle caress, which is why these panties are so aptly named. These come in all the normal ‘simple’ Vanity Fair colors, whites and beiges and everything on the spectrum of plain. They also come in the leopard print pictured and a shocking pink pair that adds a much needed blush of color to the range.
(Oh, and these panties are on sale, so if you’re reading this around the time of writing, you could get yourself a bargain!)
Vanity Fair Body Caress Brief Panties
These are some very cute, very light and very feminine panties from Ashley Stewart guaranteed to fit those men who prefer a plus size panty. The main panty is made of cotton (rarely featured on He Wears Panties) but the lace trim is adorable. With a little rose on the front, these are some fun panties perfect for fleshing out a collection.
Ashley Stewart Lace Trim Panty
If this post had a sub-title, it would be ‘because I wouldn’t shut up about ruffles yesterday.’
These very popularly ruffled panties are adorable, aren’t they? They come in red, black, pink and white. With a bow on the backside of these panties, you’ll be looking over your shoulder and into the nearest reflective surface all night long.
The sizing is what makes these panties interesting. They come in a ‘one size fits most’ and then a ‘one size plus’ and an ‘extra small’. It’s pretty clear that the manufacturer got all hopped up on frills and forgot that we already have words for those sizes – ‘small’ ‘medium’ and ‘large’.
They’re also technically speaking ‘shorts’ which means you can wear them as outerwear. Did I just give you the best idea ever? I hope so! You can wear your favorite panties underneath, then slip these ruffle panty shorts over the top. Layering is big among the panty wearing population, and for good reason. It looks great and it feels even better. Ruffle style panties and panty shorts are also excellent for creating and accentuating curves, so if you’re going for a feminine shape and feel, it’s hard to go past the a nice ruffling.
Batman himself recommends these panty shorts with an ardor I find quite charming:
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Ready to check them out for yourself?
Coquette Ruffle Shorts with Back Bow