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PostPosted: Mon Dec 04, 2017 3:56 am 
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I think that many of our wives believe that it is the start of us possibly leaving them and the question of how much further we want to take our cross dressing. That's why the small steps and letting her know that we are the same guy she married but with a softer side. Crissy


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PostPosted: Tue Dec 05, 2017 4:52 am 
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Crissy wrote:
I think that many of our wives believe that it is the start of us possibly leaving them and the question of how much further we want to take our cross dressing. That's why the small steps and letting her know that we are the same guy she married but with a softer side. Crissy

Yes, spot on Crissy. But sometimes it takes quite a bit of explaining and reassuring.

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PostPosted: Tue Dec 05, 2017 5:51 am 
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Crissy wrote:
I think that many of our wives believe that it is the start of us possibly leaving them and the question of how much further we want to take our cross dressing. That's why the small steps and letting her know that we are the same guy she married but with a softer side. Crissy

Yes, spot on Crissy. But sometimes it takes quite a bit of explaining and reassuring.

I agree but we need to try. Crissy


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PostPosted: Tue Dec 05, 2017 10:55 am 
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Hi and welcome to hwp , i too am from the uk :)
You will always get grade a advice on here and everyone is so friendly .
Anyway its good to have you onboard and i look forward to reading future posts.
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Thanks for the the lovely, warm welcome.


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PostPosted: Thu Dec 07, 2017 12:54 am 
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Crissy wrote:
......I agree but we need to try. Crissy

Knickerseveryday wrote:
Thanks for the lovely, warm welcome.

You are more than welcome Knickerseveryday, and I agree completely with Crissy, I find it best to go slowly and with care whilst gently trying the things that appeal to us and make us feel good.
For me the first stage is getting comfortable in myself with wearing whatever it is I want to wear. That comfort develops confidence, and the confidence takes away any guilt and makes it so much easier to come out about it and wear those items in front of someone else, even if it's only your other half.
So when I have something new to wear I will wear it in private to begin with until it becomes a normal everyday item and feels right, then I judge the right moment to come out and wear it openly. It's a gradual process, but it avoids confrontations (by either party), it's an easier path to acceptance by others, and it takes a lot of the scariness away.
I can't emphasise too much the benefits of finding that confidence, for many that is by far the hardest part, but someone who goes about in the world with confidence is often a much happier person inside, and that's what we all seek.

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Hey diddle diddle, the cat did a piddle,
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PostPosted: Thu Dec 07, 2017 1:05 am 
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Hi and welcome!

You're wife will eventually understand but initially they question the security of the relationship and, frankly, whether you are gay!! I'm from the UK and went through the same as you. It will be fine.

I too work in a male dominated industry in the City, it's nice to feel expressive but I feel like I'll stop at knickers but who knows where this takes us!

Good lick my friend and persevere!

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PostPosted: Thu Dec 07, 2017 3:05 am 
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Thank you for your kind responses.


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