I’ve written several articles about breaking the news that you’re a man who likes to wear lingerie. This is a more specific targeted guide designed especially for guys who are married and would like to share their secret lingerie wearing with their wives.
A man wearing a bra isn’t always what it seems. At first glance all men wearing bras might seem to be the same, but there are many different types of bra wearing male, just like there are many fishes in the sea or birds in the sky. Being able to differentiate between the various types of male bra wearers is a useful life skill that probably won’t be included in any school curriculum any time soon, no matter how relevant it may be.
What are the best panties for men? Opinions vary greatly. Some men like thongs, others prefer bloomers. This article is based on feedback I have received from some of the finest male panty connoisseurs the Internet can provide. Let’s see if I’ve got this right.
Freedom. As a society we’re big on freedom, huge even. Freedom is the word we call upon when we want to inspire courage. Freedom is the word we call upon when we want to stir emotional response. For the West, personal freedom is everything. Or is it?
This picture is really a case of ’nuff said. As demonstrated not just this picture, but by the group of about ten young men we came across wandering around town in schoolgirl dresses the other evening (true story), we (society at large) accept men who wear women’s clothing as long as it is for comical effect.
It’s not an ideal solution, but it is a starting point. If you happen to be a man who steps out in women’s clothing, how about putting a little element of fun into it next time you go out? A smile on your face often equates to smiles on the faces of those around you.
Men who wear women’s lingerie face many challenges, not the least of which is the fear (or reality) of cruel jibes from their slavish jockey wearing peers who mistake toeing the unspoken fashion line for true masculinity. If you’re a man who wants to wear women’s lingerie, I would encourage you to ignore the voices of the mainstream and follow your lingerie passions. Why? Because society can never comprehend just how impermanent it actually is, and nor can we.
Nice to know that there’s at least one corner (or subway station) of the world where men wear whatever the hell they like…
It’s been almost two years since I started writing these articles, can you believe it? And the very first of them, the seed from which all of this has grown is the original article ‘Is He Gay If He Wears Women’s Lingerie?‘ (Click the link to read the article.) This was in reaction to misinformed sentiments about men who wore lingerie, and I wanted to set the record straight, as it were.
This is a pretty special article to me because I’m so happy with how this movement has grown. Yes, it is still small, but from no readers at all to around 4,000 per day, I think we can say that the message is getting out there. If you know any men or women who would benefit from the sort of information they can find here on He Wears Panties please do share this site with them. I know there are many smaller groups of men who wear lingerie dotted about the ‘net, and if you happen to belong to one of them, let your fellow men in lingerie know about this place. There’s a nice community brewing here and it would be great to see it grow!
Thank you for your patronage, men. I hope these articles continue to bring you all pleasure in the coming years.
Some things improve with age. Other things aren’t as good as they used to be. Some people might argue that lingerie falls into both these categories, and for those people, vintage lingerie is just the ticket.
There’s nothing like vintage lingerie for rediscovering eras of class, style and sophistication (at least through the rose colored history glasses that come standard at birth). Though modern lingerie certainly has its charms, there is something about old time lingerie that makes lingerie afficionados get quivery at the knees.
So here’s an interesting fact I learned lately: many men who wear lingerie don’t just love panties, they also love bloomers. That’s right, those old style, old school pantaloons from days of old. Bloomers were originally named after a woman, Amelia Bloomer, and surprisingly enough they were actually created as part of the women’s rights movement.
For many women, lingerie is something they put on when they want to impress a man (sure, there are some women who just love lingerie for its own sake, and far be it for me to cast aspersions on lingerie loving women), but for men who wear lingerie, its often a pure love.
Lingerie for men, men’s lingerie, what is it, and what is it not? This article is written from the perspective of someone who has spent a great deal of time interacting with men who wear lingerie and listening to what they have to say on the topic.