Author Archives: Hope

About Hope

Hope Alexander is an unlikely fashion guru, pseudo philosopher, and lady who likes men who wear lingerie. Some say that Hope Alexander once round housed Chuck Norris. (After he claimed that public health care would have invariably resulted in the Virgin Mary aborting Jesus.) Others say she eats LOL cats on toast for breakfast and that she once scaled Notre Dame holding a freedom fry in one hand and a baguette in the other. It later turned out that the whole stunt had been filmed not a mile from a major road, which caused a major backlash against her popular bounty hunting tv series in which she bailed out ice heads, then tracked them down whilst wearing feathers and beads in her hair. Today, a shadow of her former self, she writes on the Internet.

A Guide To Men Wearing Bras


A man wearing a bra isn’t always what it seems. At first glance all men wearing bras might seem to be the same, but there are many different types of bra wearing male, just like there are many fishes in the sea or birds in the sky. Being able to differentiate between the various types of male bra wearers is a useful life skill that probably won’t be included in any school curriculum any time soon, no matter how relevant it may be.

Without further ado, let us gain a basic understanding of the different types of men who wear bras.

The Best Panties For Men

What are the best panties for men? Opinions vary greatly. Some men like thongs, others prefer bloomers. This article is based on feedback I have received from some of the finest male panty connoisseurs the Internet can provide. Let’s see if I’ve got this right.

Click here to discover the best panties for men, according to moi…

Finding Freedom For Men In Panties

Freedom For Men In Panties

Freedom. As a society we’re big on freedom, huge even. Freedom is the word we call upon when we want to inspire courage. Freedom is the word we call upon when we want to stir emotional response. For the West, personal freedom is everything. Or is it?

Click here to discover the secret of freedom for men who wear women’s lingerie…

How To Have Fun Wearing Women’s Clothing

This picture is really a case of ’nuff said.  As demonstrated not just this picture, but by the group of about ten young men we came across wandering around town in schoolgirl dresses the other evening (true story), we (society at large) accept men who wear women’s clothing as long as it is for comical effect.

It’s not an ideal solution, but it is a starting point.  If you happen to be a man who steps out in women’s clothing, how about putting a little element of fun into it next time you go out? A smile on your face often equates to smiles on the faces of those around you.

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Don’t Be A Slave To Fashion, Be A Slave To Lingerie

Men who wear women’s lingerie face many challenges, not the least of which is the fear (or reality) of cruel jibes from their slavish jockey wearing peers who mistake toeing the unspoken fashion line for true masculinity. If you’re a man who wants to wear women’s lingerie, I would encourage you to ignore the voices of the mainstream and follow your lingerie passions. Why? Because society can never comprehend just how impermanent it actually is, and nor can we.

Read on…

The Very First ‘He Wears Lingerie’ Article

It’s been almost two years since I started writing these articles, can you believe it? And the very first of them, the seed from which all of this has grown is the original article ‘Is He Gay If He Wears Women’s Lingerie?‘ (Click the link to read the article.) This was in reaction to misinformed sentiments about men who wore lingerie, and I wanted to set the record straight, as it were.

This is a pretty special article to me because I’m so happy with how this movement has grown. Yes, it is still small, but from no readers at all to around 4,000 per day, I think we can say that the message is getting out there. If you know any men or women who would benefit from the sort of information they can find here on He Wears Panties please do share this site with them.  I know there are many smaller groups of men who wear lingerie dotted about the ‘net, and if you happen to belong to one of them, let your fellow men in lingerie know about this place. There’s a nice community brewing here and it would be great to see it grow!

Thank you for your patronage, men. I hope these articles continue to bring you all pleasure in the coming years.



Vintage Lingerie For Men

Some things improve with age. Other things aren’t as good as they used to be. Some people might argue that lingerie falls into both these categories, and for those people, vintage lingerie is just the ticket.

There’s nothing like vintage lingerie for rediscovering eras of class, style and sophistication (at least through the rose colored history glasses that come standard at birth). Though modern lingerie certainly has its charms, there is something about old time lingerie that makes lingerie afficionados get quivery at the knees.

Read more, discover sexy vintage lingerie…

Bloomers – The Lingerie Of Heroes


So here’s an interesting fact I learned lately: many men who wear lingerie don’t just love panties, they also love bloomers. That’s right, those old style, old school pantaloons from days of old. Bloomers were originally named after a woman, Amelia Bloomer, and surprisingly enough they were actually created as part of the women’s rights movement.

Read more about Bloomers – a surprising lingerie legacy…

Love and Men In Lingerie

For many women, lingerie is something they put on when they want to impress a man (sure, there are some women who just love lingerie for its own sake, and far be it for me to cast aspersions on lingerie loving women), but for men who wear lingerie, its often a  pure love.

Men who love lingerie, and why women should love them…