Author Archives: Hope

About Hope

Hope Alexander is an unlikely fashion guru, pseudo philosopher, and lady who likes men who wear lingerie. Some say that Hope Alexander once round housed Chuck Norris. (After he claimed that public health care would have invariably resulted in the Virgin Mary aborting Jesus.) Others say she eats LOL cats on toast for breakfast and that she once scaled Notre Dame holding a freedom fry in one hand and a baguette in the other. It later turned out that the whole stunt had been filmed not a mile from a major road, which caused a major backlash against her popular bounty hunting tv series in which she bailed out ice heads, then tracked them down whilst wearing feathers and beads in her hair. Today, a shadow of her former self, she writes on the Internet.

Caught By A Cupless Bra | The Sexy Clearance Lingerie Trap

bondage-lingerie-setI was going to write an article about budget lingerie options (you know, with the economy being what it is and all,) but then I began to research the topic and discovered a strange underlying trend. When one searches for ‘cheap lingerie’ or ‘budget lingerie’ or even ‘clearance lingerie’, one inexplicably begins to turn up the sort of attire that would make ones ancestors roll in their graves, assuming your ancestors were the type of people to disapprove of an open cup bra, matching thong and, this one was a new one to me in the field of lingerie at least, silver chain halter wrist restraint set.

Read on, mateys…

Sexy Sensual Vintage Panties For Men

acetate-pantiesThere’s something so very charming about vintage lingerie. Perhaps it is the way it harks back to a simpler time, before you could program your implanted RFID chip with your mp3 player. Perhaps it is the way that the lingerie from days of olde (a time somewhere between the present and the olden days) always seems to have been handcrafted by tiny Belgian nuns, or disenfranchised Lithuanian princesses, or some such thing. An item of vintage lingerie  seems imbued with history, with a story that runs much deeper than the lingerie on offer at your local purveyor of lacy goods.

Read on, chaps…

Glamorous Wolford Stockings For Men

grit-tightsStockings are not lingerie essentials, they are the explicit domain of the lingerie lover. Carefully woven from the finest materials, stockings caress the wearer’s leg with every step, inviting them into a world of subtle passion where senses are heightened, the line between masculine and feminine blurs and the true nature of the human beast is let out to play.

Read more about sexy stockings…

Men In Panties Showdown: Cotton Bikini Cut Panties For Men vs Nylon Bikini Cut Panties For Men


How you like that headline hmm? Seen one as long as that? Not in a long time, I’ll warrant. It has been suggested to me by various reliable sources that bikini cut panties are some of the best panties a man can wear. Not only do they provide full coverage in the front and back which makes them both comfortable and sensual, but they also expose the thigh in a sexy sort of fashion, creating a sexy look. With bikini cut panties a man really can have his cake and eat it too.

Let the showdown commence!

Cute Victoria’s Secret Bras For Men

vintage-victoriaA man who loves bras will soon find that he is spoiled for choice when it comes to choosing a bra. Does he want to be sensual? Does he want to be naughty? Does he want to choose a white bra which blends with the sheets and is hard to find after a night of passion? The choices are infinite, but our time here on earth is finite, which means some help in narrowing down the candidates is often appreciated.

Hope’s reviews of some sexy Victoria’s Secret Lingerie…

Hot Red Lingerie For Men

sexy-red-lingerieIt is said that a lady in red is more attractive than a lady in any other colour, but how about a man, hmm? Men who wear lingerie seem to have as much of a love affair with red lingerie on themselves as their lady. And why not? Red is the color of passion, of blood, of fire. Designers claim that red is the perfect color for calls to action, for inciting purchasing ‘violence’, if you will. Red lingerie arouses an entirely different kind of passion, passion of a more carnal type.

Sexy red lingerie awaits…

Why We Fear Men In Lingerie

This article jumps in the deep end, but don’t worry, it makes sense in the end, I promise.

As recently as WWII, European communities had to contend with the possibility of being wiped out. Men went away to war, leaving only the frail, the sick and the young. Upon their return from war, we saw the conception of the baby boomer generation, a generation founded on all important ‘family values’.

Read on,  find out why some people react to men in lingerie in the same way they react to a shark with a lazer on its head…

Cotton Panties For Men

cute-cotton-pantiesWhen it comes to women’s lingerie, cotton panties lie on the borderline between femininity and innocence. A great many men who wear lingerie wear satins, silks and nylons for sheer sensation, but cotton is also popular in spite of the fact that it is not ostensibly the most sensual of materials. Why? Well, cotton has its own charms, as we shall discover in this piece.

Mmm cotton panties…

Rebellious Lingerie For Bad Boys

strappy-pantiesSometimes wearing lingerie is an act of rebellion. It is a signal that tells the world (subtly, under your clothes) that you will not be a slave to the norms enforced on you since childhood. No longer will you suffer in itchy cotton jockeys which do nothing for you on any level. No longer will you buy into the myth of utilitarian male underwear, no you will wear women’s lingerie and be proud of it! But what lingerie will you wear?

Read more about rebellious lingerie…

Sissy Jane Gets Caught | A Man In Panties Story

I’ve just added a new story to the collection, a tale of a very naughty little sissy who gets caught out wearing lingerie.  Post your feedback in the comments and let me know what you thought.

John made it home early on Thursday night. 3.45 pm, two hours at least before Susan and the kids would be home. He had with him a brown package. It crinkled softly under his arm, so unobtrusive to the rest of the world, but calling him with a voice so sultry, so seductive it had drawn him out of the office altogether.

He shouldn’t have gone of course. He shouldn’t even have the package. He should never have been on the site he placed the order on. But he had been there, he did have the package (which had been delivered at work to avoid any undue suspicions,) and he had driven home shortly after the courier had dropped it off casually at his desk, blithely unaware of the treasures it contained.

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The Enlightenment of Men Who Wear Women’s Lingerie

Men who wear lingerie. Men who wear women’s clothes. Men who desire to embrace the feminine within themselves. Some dismiss the activity as a perversion, something done by ‘sick’ men who cannot embrace the narrow identity of masculinity they were assigned by their x and y chromosomal make up.

But, one could argue, there is more to men wearing women’s clothing than just perversion. Perhaps, for some men , the wearing of women’s lingerie, and the experiencing of the feminine is one step on the road to enlightenment.

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