Author Archives: Hope

About Hope

Hope Alexander is an unlikely fashion guru, pseudo philosopher, and lady who likes men who wear lingerie. Some say that Hope Alexander once round housed Chuck Norris. (After he claimed that public health care would have invariably resulted in the Virgin Mary aborting Jesus.) Others say she eats LOL cats on toast for breakfast and that she once scaled Notre Dame holding a freedom fry in one hand and a baguette in the other. It later turned out that the whole stunt had been filmed not a mile from a major road, which caused a major backlash against her popular bounty hunting tv series in which she bailed out ice heads, then tracked them down whilst wearing feathers and beads in her hair. Today, a shadow of her former self, she writes on the Internet.

Subtle Feminine Make Up For Men

My recent article, You Men and Your Panties, asked my readers why they were so interested in feminine clothing yet apparently not so interested in make up and hair, which are two very important facets of feminine appearance.

Many men responded that they are interested in make up, but find it difficult to apply, and once applied, difficult to hide. This makes sense, however there are ways around these problems. The first thing you have to remember when applying make up is that well applied make up should make it look as if you are not wearing any at all.   It is very possible to wear make up without being obvious about it.

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You Men And Your Panties

It may surprise you to learn that I’ve been studying you, dear readers, lurking in a lurky fashion and discovering what interests you and what leaves you cold based on how many of you come along to various articles and how many of you are so inspired by the articles that you take time to add your voices to the fray.

Based on these factors, I have determined what seems to interest your average man who wears women’s clothing, and what does not.

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Feminine Hair For Men

Of the many traits associated with femininity, pretty hair is one of the strongest associations after strategically placed curves and baby feeding devices. If you’re a man who likes to appear feminine, hair can be something of a challenge, but it can also be an asset if you put your thinking cap on.

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Are You A Better Man For Wearing Women’s Clothing?

Let’s have a discussion! Discussion is good for the soul and the typing fingers. If you’re a man who wears women’s clothing, do you feel that you are better for it? Before we get started with the shouty comments downstairs, let’s make it quite clear, I’m not asking if men who wear women’s clothing are better than men who do not, nor am I attempting to imply such a thing. Last I checked, men who wear women’s clothing have to put their pantyhose on one leg at a time, just like everybody else.

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Where Do You Hide Your Lingerie Secrets?

Even men whose partners support their wearing of women’s clothing often go out of their way to hide their precious secrets. Why? Perhaps in case of discovery by family members other than one’s partner, or perhaps simply because hiding things is fun.

‘Fastcat’ shared his secret, saying:

Hi Hope, to answer your quest for a hidden shoe haven you should come to my workshop. Hidden in secret drawers built into the bottom of my work benches…

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How Not To Lose Loved Ones Over Lingerie

It’s a common fear (and occasionally, even a reality,) that revealing the fact that you are a man who loves to wear lingerie will push away loved ones and leave you lonely and sadly alone. Some men who share their secrets with their romantic partners find support and love that they did not know existed before they shared their secrets. Other men who share their feelings end up embroiled in bitter disputes and sometimes even divorce.

What are the differences between these two groups of men?

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Perfectly Soft Microfiber Bras For Men

I’m a big fan of microfiber for many reasons, its smooth, it has a sheen to it, it is comfortable, and it is the way of the future. When all the cotton dies out due to global warming, those of us who have already adapted to polymer clothing will have an advantage over those who keep whining about the fact you can’t drink the water anymore.

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If you are interested in the beautiful bras featured in this article, they can be found here:

This bra features a unique turban wrap back that smooths you for a flawless look. This underwire, molded cup bra is made of seamless microfiber fabric for soft comfort. This bra features a plunge neckline with elegant lace trim that provides a feminine touch. Supreme support Simplex fabric offers ultimate shaping and comport.

This Olga bra doesn’t diminish fat but will smooth it where it is needed most. Great cup capacity for the full figure woman. Seamless sides for a smooth look under clothes. Tagless for comfort. Close-set straps won’t slip. Straps adjust in the back with metal hardware. Olga suggests this style as a replacement for Olga Suddenly Smooth Minimizer Bra 319.

This bra features a beautiful rose pattern that is smooth enough to wear under knits. No-poke wire design. Molded, lined, underwire cups support and shape the breasts. This Olga’s Christina bra is molded and double lined in mesh. The tone-on-tone floral print on the cups adds a beautiful touch to this sheer full figure support bra. Feminine floral lace design is smooth under clothes. Microfiber straps are soft against the skin.

This Olga’s Christina bra has lined wings with no exposed elastic for added side support. Leotard back minimizes back fat and provides additional support. Shoulder straps adjust in the back with metal hardware.

British Men In Dresses Arrested As Nuns

This story is almost half a year old and I apologize profusely for not having reported on it the moment it happened, but then again, that’s what the BBC is for. In 2009, 17 male members of a British football team were arrested in a popular Greek resort for dressing as nuns and flashing passers by. Police reported: “They were dressed like nuns, carrying crosses, but wearing thongs under their skirts and showing people their bottoms and the rest.”

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Finding Yourself | The Importance of an Inner Journey

This is philosophical, but I think it applies heavily to the readership here, who spend many hours exploring inner feminine worlds. Here’s why I think that is not only to be commended, but why it is so important to a life well lived.

As far as my spiritual and scientific educations take me, the mass of jelly between our ears is responsible for who we are. Our personality, our identity, our hopes, our dreams, our fantasies are all stored in that one small space.

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Feminine Pointed Power Shoes For Men

Men’s shoes tend to have a bluntness about the toes which one assumes is supposed to be masculine or something. Blunt, dull, boring, staid, typical fashion associations made with the male sex. Some days looking at men’s fashions is so depressing that I don’t know why we don’t just dress men in cardboard boxes and have done with it.

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